Yes...The correct choice
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
It is not often that we know for sure whether our decisions were the correct ones or not. I however know that long ago I did make the correct choice. In a previous post written many years ago, I wondered if my thoughts and reasons from so long ago were on the right path. And now, as I look back, I know I made the right choice.
He was my person. My person to confide in and turn to. He was my person that anchored me when life wanted to sweep me away.
The correct choice
Today, he is my anchor and the one I turn to for advice and run to lick my wounds whatever they may be. He is happily married to a wonderful woman and he has the life that he always wanted. I am happy for him.
Today like so many years ago, I have my best friend and my person who is my anchor. I could have lost him all those years ago had I decided to take the other path.
Even given what might have been, I would not have it any other way and I am thankful that he is still in my life.
posted by Sonya @ 4/27/2010 11:37:00 AM, ,
Dear God
Dear God,
I feel that I must write to you personally upon this very important and crucial issue. While it is important to cure world hunger and diseases I feel that we must tackle something on a somewhat a smaller scale. If you could please, and it doesn't have to be immediately mind you but in the very very near future, teach people how to merge. I have a feeling that you have turned off that instinct in people that prohibits them from merging onto the highway. It is much like watching children playing jump rope with an individual waiting for the perfect time to join the game.
While this may seem like a small issue to you, this has become a very important issue for me. Actually this seems to be driving me insane. I seriously question the intelligence of said individuals that feel it necessary to stop completely and wait patiently to pull slowly onto a busy interstate or highway. While this seems rather insignificant when compared to the rather critical topics listed above, I am putting in my request now just in case you get a break in solving all the other problems.
Thank you in advance,
Seriously Frustrated and Going Insane in San Antonio
posted by Sonya @ 4/27/2010 10:58:00 AM, ,
What I have learned this week...
I have learned that we must work hard to find pleasure in life because those around us can take away a sense of fulfillment and happiness.
I have learned that we must all work hard to be happy and to be happy with what we have. A continual of wanting more only works against the happiness we all keep waiting for.
I have learned that friendship can make any situation better and bearable.
I have learned that even closer to ones goal and dreams still leaves a sense of 'what next'.
I have learned that I need more self-reflection to fix the many thoughts that arise from my past.
But most importantly I have learned that I cannot change those around me and I must somehow learn to accept them for who they are. This I find to be the hardest thing I have ever done.
posted by Sonya @ 4/27/2010 10:44:00 AM, ,
