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Who I Am

This is me!
I recently viewed a friend's blog where she had a personality test. It's funny, because her and I are a lot alike. But, for some reason I have never identified myself as an introverted individual. I guess I never saw myself that way because I have no problem saying exactly what I want to say exactly when I want to say it. It's just when I look at how I observe situations and that I always look for the big picture on everything...I realize that is exaclly what I am.
Below is what a character assessment says about me... the scary thing is...every word is who I am. It's like this writer has been in my head my entire life. It's funny that we can all fit into nice little categories and not even know it.

The Observer (the Five)
Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful.

How to Get Along with Me
Be independent, not clingy.
Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.
I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.
Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable.
Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity.
If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.
don't come on like a bulldozer.
Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.

What I Like About Being a Five
standing back and viewing life objectively
coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects
my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure
not being caught up in material possessions and status
being calm in a crisis

What's Hard About Being a Five
being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world
feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all
being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be
watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally

Fives as Children Often
spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on
have a few special friends rather than many
are very bright and curious and do well in school
have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers
watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information
assume a poker face in order not to look afraid
are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict
feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected

Fives as Parents
are often kind, perceptive, and devoted
are sometimes authoritarian and demanding
may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate
may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions

posted by Sonya @ 12/18/2006 02:45:00 PM,

1 Comments:

At December 18, 2006 at 4:23 PM, Blogger Sakshi said...

A ha..
Should have known there was a reason why you were an American me :)

 

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